I was invited to be interviewed as a parent voice for ARFID. See the article below.
Article by Meg Heaton of the Hudson Star Observer, 2017
Nothing is more basic to human growth and development than food, but for some, including a lot of children, that relationship is fraught with fear.
Avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) is a type of eating disorder where the consumption of certain foods is limited based on the food’s appearance, smell, taste, texture, or a past negative experience with the food. It is a physical response to one or more foods that can feel life threatening to someone with ARFID.
Dr. Kim DiRe is a psychologist and therapist who practices near Phoenix but treats patients with ARFID from all over the country. She was recently at the Healing Waters Health Center in Hudson to meet with parents of children with ARFID and professionals who want to learn more about the disorder.
DiRe says that ARFID often exhibits itself early in a child’s life and can be associated with something traumatic that happened at birth or even in utero. It can also develop in older children and adults.
“It is a very deep fear of food and the consequences that will come if they eat it — choking, allergic reaction, vomiting. The fear is very real and they feel like they could die if they eat,” said DiRe.
One of the parents attending the training at Healing Waters was Erin, an IT consultant in the Twin Cities and the mother of a 9-year-old who has had ARFID since birth.
Erin believes trauma surrounding her son’s difficult birth, which included the umbilical cord being wrapped around his neck, is what caused him to have ARFID. He started to exhibit signs of ARFID as soon as he was introduced to solid food.
DiRe says children like him are often labeled “picky eaters,” but it is more complicated than that. Foods that trigger the disorder in a child create a physical response that includes the release of adrenalin and nervous system responses that make eating impossible.
DiRe says ARFID is a sensory disorder where body tissue stores the memory of some trauma and the tissue when stimulated sends the message that the food is harmful, maybe even fatal. “Their first instinct is to survive. The threat is not just a cognitive one but one related to heightened senses which can shut down the digestive tract among other responses, making eating a threat.”
DiRe says it is not that those with ARFID aren’t hungry, they just can’t eat food like others do.
Erin said when her son was presented table foods, he had trouble swallowing certain foods and avoided others. As he grew, his mother noticed his eating habits became more limited. The family sought professional help, but traditional therapies for eating disorders seemed to make him more fearful.
ARFID complicates life for those living with it. Erin said school lunch, outings with friends and birthday parties can create problems, even feelings of shame.
DiRe says most of the population doesn’t realize how much food and eating impacts daily life. “It is a very social activity and there can be a lot of anxiety and shame when you feel differently about it.”
DiRe’s therapy for ARFID focuses on the sensory and nervous system, using touch to calm and control the release of adrenalin. She also uses talk therapy to assess the level of anxiety and understand the specifics of what foods create the problem. The goal is to create a chemical shift in the nervous system that diminishes the threat of food.
Erin says DiRe’s treatment is working for her son and it is worth the frequent trips to Arizona for the 10-hour weekend therapy sessions. She has also reached out to other parents through her blog. She is a certified nutrition coach and hopes to inform others about ARFID and the therapy DiRe uses.
Both DiRe and Erin want people to know that ARFID is an eating disorder that is recognized by medical professionals and that it is not a choice children make not to eat.
“We tend to reward eating and punish for not eating. But that won’t work with ARFID. What we have to do is get them to place where they feel that it is safe to eat and nothing bad will happen,” said DiRe.
I am an ARFID Mom. I am the mother of a 12 year old boy with Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID). I have become the "expert" on my son's feeding issues. I am here to share what I've learned.